Divorce Coaching is a relatively new form of coaching. Divorcing is one of the most important times in your life to have coaching. There is so much to know and there are so many decisions to make at a very emotional stage of life. Having a coach can help you with all there is to deal with emotionally and to keep your head straight, too. There are opportunities at this time and your decisions may affect the rest of your life. The older you are, the more difficult financial decisions will be. How to deal with children is also very important for your family. A Divorce Coach can help you with these.
One of the most important aspects of Divorce Coaching is helping you set goals. What do you want after the divorce is over? How do you want to live your life? Where will you live? Will you need to work? How will you find a job? Where will your children live?
You may think that lawyers and the court are going to wisely lead the progress of your divorce. No, in fact, you and your spouse are in charge. The lawyers are there to facilitate and advise. You and your spouse must agree on issues or the judge will. The judge does not live in your house, does not live and breathe your issues. You do! Whatever decisions are made are best done with agreement between you and your spouse. A Divorce Coach will help you work through the decisions. They can help you think through the best way to handle issues when you are feeling pressure from the divorcing partner or lawyer.
A Divorce Coach holds your hand and guides you down the path. A Divorce Coach has a cadre of professionals that he knows will do a good job of advising you. She is your professional “Friend” and on your side. When she sees you making errors in judgment, she will help you see them. Using a Divorce Coach can save you money in the long run. She speeds things along with lawyers because she can advise you for less cost than a lawyer. She may also suggest options and help with decision making. She can help you keep on the pragmatic way and away from emotionally charged decisions.